Such Freedom!

Believe it or not, having your own independence brings about such freedom! Even with your independence that doesn't mean that you can never allow people or someone to help in time of serious need. Ponder over the feeling you get when you reach in YOUR purse, grab YOUR wallet to get YOUR cash & spend for YOURSELF!

I love that feeling!!! That's not to say, that your honey, cannot buy you nice things or even give you cash of his own. I mean who wants to refuse that when there are no strings attached? lol However, this freedom that I'm speaking about keeps you from being hindered & being able to " be" or being able to just "do". You don't have to sit around and wait for someone to take care of you because you CAN do it for yourself. It's never a good place to depend on someone for long...because eventually you'll see that if that person doesn't have a right heart, they may take advantage of what they consider, "their" power over you.

Never get manipulated by money or anything else.

I remember many years ago....I had an old car. It gave out here and there,then completely "out". The person that I was in an unhealthy relationship with saw that as an opportunity to "control" me, by allowing me to drive his second car. Since I needed transportation desparately, I agreed. Well, as a little time went on, I was monitored like a child, and had no freedom. Eventually, I had enough & prayed over it. Guess what? GOD blessed me!! I was able to purchase a brand new car! It was awesome to regain my freedom, my independence!

Food For Thought:

Never except gifts of any sort with strings attached.
If you're married, you may still have your independence as long as
it doesn't interefere with family...have balance.

Wise hubsands should understand this.

If you've lost your independence, regain it one day at a time.
*Don't forget that little nest egg for emergencies!*
Pray for guidance in this area.