"Do YOU Use Common Sense?"

Hey Ladies,

As I wrote last night for my men's book, yes, a men's book....some things came to mind like
 "common sense."  And no, I'm not saying men don't use common sense. lol. The subject was completely different, however, since common sense came up in my spirit, I wanted to blog on it because in all honesty, some women fail to use this in "relationships" and just in everyday life issues. 

Having good judgement will usually keep things 
smooth, no matter what it is. If your "perception" is off
most of the time, then your judgement on things will be distorted.
Ask yourself, "why is that?" There is a reason that lack of common
sense leads you to make bad judgement.
Ponder over that today in your own life.

FYI:  The women's book is still a priority.! However, just as "I" think I'm done, my "Holy Spirit" guides me to write some more, and so I obey. We know the Spirit is never to be rushed. God's timing and not my own. So patience is key.

Food For Thought  

Don't underestimate common sense.

If you do, somehow it may cost you.

Free Yourself From Abuse!

Hello Ladies,
I hope all is well in your life and the life of those you love and hold near and dear. I'm at home alone so I decided to take a moment to post a blog.

Today I want to encourage all of you women who are in unhealthy, abusive, toxic relationships to get out of them. And by all means, DO NOT MARRY a man who abuses you in any way on any level. Trust me...if you stay, it will only get worse. Cut it off immediately, and if you're in danger, be wise about how you depart. Why am  I telling you all of this?  Simply because you deserve better. Staying in a bad relationship keeps you in bondage. Having the courage to walk away will give you more power than you ever knew you had. . Life is short. You should be happy living YOUR life.  If you have small kids, protect them. Teach them about the love of God. Give them a foundation to stand on asap. Don't allow anyone to corrupt their "normal & healthy" thinking pattern of right values and morals.  When you free yourself from such foolishness, you'll feel free. God will eventually send a loving man your way. Don't look for him, he'll show up when you least expect him...just as my husband did. Keep in mind, that when you do walk away,your ex may be very angry, vindictive, jealous and mean spirited towards you. Don't allow his poison to keep you in bondage or connected. This is only another reminder of how controlling your ex was and still wants to be.
You have the right to walk away from a person who makes you unhappy due to the abuse. You have a right to be happy. You owe him nothing!!!  All that you can do for a person like that is pray that GOD will deliver him. Pray that God changes that man's heart. YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANYONE...only God can. The last thing that you need to remember... "You are beautiful...don't allow anyone to steal your joy,your peace nor your  happiness.

Food For Thought

Proverbs 6:34

For jealousy is the rage of a man:

therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. 

(Don't allow the scripture above to put fear in you.

This allows you to be wise & be on guard. )