Hello Blog Followers! I hope all has been well in your life and the lives of your family and friends. I thought today was the perfect day for me to REPOST a BLOG writing that I did back in August 2011.
I wanted to share with you so that you will never be caught off guard , blindsided by the schemes of someone who wants to draw blood from you. For many men, this is their story. I know what they have gone through when a woman that they're no longer with, simply can't let go so they attack in any way they can to make the father suffer. How do they do it? They use the child as a pawn.
How do I know this?
"It's my own personal story?"
Simply put: I walked away from an abusive relationship. That person could no longer abuse me. I met a wonderful man who swept me off my feet. This wonderful man loves all three of my sons. This man pampered me. This wonderful man married me almost 4 years ago.
Problem: My ex had a problem with it from the very start and still does. He's been jealous,spiteful, and still verbally abusive. He has stopped at nothing to attempt to have control in some way.
Resolution: Trust God no matter what! GOD SEES EVERYTHING! So even when it looks all wrong...trust that GOD is doing something behind the scenes. If you're a righteous man or woman and you know that you've been living according to GOD's ways...HE has your back, no matter what. Remember, what the devil meant for harm, GOD will turn it around and work it out for your good.
Keep in mind ,EPHESIANS 6:12 "For we wrestle not against flesh and and blood,but against principalities, against powers,against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.Pray for your enemies. You've come too far to turn back. You are a child of God and will remain a child of God.
"Parental Alienation"
This is a very serious matter. For those of you who aren't aware of it...allow me to explain in simplest terms. Parental Alienation is a "severe" case of brainwashing of a child during a break-up or a divorce. One parent trys to gain all aspects of "control" over the child and/or children. The ultimate goal for the brainwasher is to make you look bad, because in all honesty, you are the "good parent". Not to say that the other parent is "bad". However, the behavior of such things are awful. The parent who is trying to gain control, plots & plans schemes of deception, lies,manipulation and a host of underhandedness. More than likely, this person was an abuser in the relationship/marriage. The objective here is to get what they want & to try and make your life a living hell because you decided that you no longer wanted to remain in an unhealthy relationship or marriage. The brainwasher uses anything & everything to twist the truth, and knows no morals when on his or her personal mission.
There is so much to parental alienation that I won't get into...however I will suggest that you do your research and ALWAYS be the bigger person by not bad mouthing the parent who has taken this negative approach. Parental alienation is a painful experience for the parent who is loving and doing the right thing. In the end, you'll be able to sleep at night knowing that your conscience is clear.
Last but not least, DO NOT take this severe case of brainwashing personal! DO NOT take your frustrations out on your child/children. You will not be able to make a child or children understand adult matters. Just give it to GOD,and keep being the best parent that you know how to be.
Food For Thought
eventually he or she will see the big picture.
