Parental Alienation

TOOLS OF THE ALIENATOR
* Persistent Unfounded Criticism
* Limiting Contact
* Erasing The Other Parent From Child's Life
* Forcing Rejection
* Creating Fear
* Forcing Choice
* Isolating The Child From Extended Family


( Above information from Dr. Phil)


* Persistent Unfounded Criticism
(Criticism of the other parent. Negative talk. Negative words.)


* Limiting Contact
(Keeping the child from communicating with the other parent via phone, text or email. Also blocking the other parent from communicating with the child, by ignoring texts or phone calls.)


* Erasing The Other Parent From Child's Life
(When one parents acts as if the other parent doesn't exist...therefore not co-parenting, making important decisions alone. Moving the child to another location or even another state.)


* Forcing Rejection
(When one parent forces the child to reject the other parent.
ALSO, when one parent rejects the CHILD in some way- IF- the child doesn't reject the other parent.


* Creating Fear
(When one parent puts fear in the child in some manipulating way. The child becomes fearful in telling the other parent the truth of why he or she is rejecting or mistreating them.


* Forcing Choice
(When one parent forces the child to "go along with"  OR ELSE...forces the child to choose one parent over the other, and if not, the one parent places fear in the child to get his/her way.


* Isolating The Child From Extended Family
(When one parent isolates the child from the other parent's extended family which includes grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins. In other cases, the child can also be isolated from their own brothers and sisters, step parents and step brothers and sisters.

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COURAGE...

COURAGE...

Deuteronomy 31:6
"Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you."

Matthew 10:26
"Therefore do not fear them, for there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, and hidden that will not be known.

Psalm 56:3-4
When I am afraid, I will put my trust in Thee. In God, whose word I praise, In God I have put my trust; I shall not be afraid. What can [mere] man do to me?

Daily daily inspiration just for you...

Psalm 31:24

Be of good courage,
And He shall strengthen your heart,
All you who hope in the Lord.

Proverbs 3:5,6

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart;
and lean not unto thine own understanding.
 In all thy ways acknowledge him,
 and he shall direct thy paths.

Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ,
 who strengthens me.

Isaiah 26:3
Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace,
 whose mind is stayed on thee
 because he trusteth in thee.

Food For Thought

God is really with you always no matter what! 

Never forget that!

New Things!

Hey Ladies,

It's been a long while since I've written in my blog.

So many things have been going on over the last 6 months!

Just to let you know,

Rolemodeltmd will no longer be in existence for mature women

however, there will be a GREAT transition that you'll love!

Rolemodeltmd will still be around, but in a different way.

I'll post again about this new phase in the coming months.

For now, I'll leave you with this...

"Spend time or "more" time with God if needed

& take care of yourself."

Food For Thought

There's only one Him & there's only one you.

Hello

Well the time has come again to say goodbye to this year and welcome in the new year! I don't have an exact list of resolutions, but what I do have are past things that I will NOT take into my new year.

Before I end this post post I want to encourage you to be happy...healthy and wise!  Don't be naiive to the snakes that may be lurking in your backyard, therefore, protect yourself by using the wisdom that you've already earned & learned, & don't make the same mistakes twice. If you've been hurt this past year by someone you've love dearly, look ahead for what God has for YOU! Expect something awesome and thank God for his blessings in advance because surely it's coming. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.Try placing yourself in others shoes before you step on their toes with offense. Be considerate. Grow. Mature.  Follow HIS Commandments!
Stay obedient.  

Keep in mind, others will hurt you, intentionally or  undeliberately. Sad but true. When you find this to be your story, pray for them and keep it moving. If you need to cut others off  or pull back slightly simply because they aren't respecting you, then do so...tactfully. Somehow in the end, it will all work out anyway. Stepping away allows others to finally see the big picture you already saw! "Time & maturity for some is key!"  Don't go into the next year with baggage that you already know will weigh you down. You won't be able to travel far at all...and you'll remain in one spot. If you sit still for a little while, you'll see people for who they really are, whethor it's good or bad.
Learn to speak up.  Do what's right in God's eyes. 

Lastly, enjoy those people who adore you! Spend time with those who lift you up and not pull you down. Enjoy nature, look around at all of the beauty that surrounds you and count your blessings. Be still at times. Laugh and be silly too!   Help someone...be of service to others in need. Cry if you must. Rest your mind and body. Exercise.
Don't allow others to rain on your parade...and learn to say "NO" just because you can.

Above all...pray more & cling to GOD like never before.  

Romans 10:9,10 - ⁹If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. ¹⁰ For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
Proverbs 3:5;6-  ⁵ Trust in the Lord with all your heart,And lean not on your own understanding;⁶ In all your ways acknowledge Him,And He shall direct^[a] your paths.

Philippians 4:13-¹³ I can do all things through Christ^[a] who strengthens me.

Psalms 4:4;5-⁴ Be angry,^[a] and do not sin;  ponder in your own hearts on your beds, and be silent. Selah ⁵ Offer right sacrifices,    and put your trust in the Lord.

Jeremiah 29:11-11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

I pray for prosperity in your life, and the lives of your loved ones. I pray peace, joy & love for you and your loved ones, I pray for protection over you and your loved ones with many blessings from above...in Jesus name, AMEN! 

Happy New Year's Eve!

Happy Birthday JESUS! 

Merry CHRISTmas!

Romans 10:9,10

Food For Thought

"Do you owe HIM your life?" 

May God Bless You & Your Family!