Ladies we know that we deserve "our" time alone to work on hobbies,work or just to sit still and meditate. However, there has to be balance in your life, if not, then you'll have a problem.
Pay attention when your time is being desired or requested. Loved ones may come right out and ask for it in one way or another,or there are times when "you" have to take notice.
There are clues to look for.
1.) Does your child/husband/boyfriend always walk on heels? lol
2.) Does your loved one strike up conversation?
3.) Does your loved one look bored?
4.) Are they hinting around?
5.) Are they upset?
6.) Do they appear sad for some reason?
Be mindful, that BALANCE is the key in all you do. Remember, family does come first. You shouldn't put off the things that you enjoy, however, make time also for what really matters in the end. (Your loved ones.)
Food for thought:
You shouldn't always schedule your family around "your stuff", but schedule "your stuff" around your family. Sometimes, it's ok......but this shouldn't be a habit.
Squeezing your family in with whatever time you have left, doesn't make them feel important. It tells them that "your stuff" is more important. That may not be the actual case from where you're standing, but it could make them feel that way. Your ACTIONS tell the story!
Life is short....our days are not promised.
So remember, it's time to spend "time" with them and make them know it!
God Bless YOU and YOUR Family & Have a great weekend!
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