Husband- OUR SPECIAL DAY!

LOVE Is Wonderful!  MARRIAGE Is Wonderful!

               Today is my 4 year wedding anniversary! WooHoo!

        FOUR Little Tips For A Great Marriage that makes a BIG difference.

                            1.) Listen & Communicate "effectively".

                                  2.) Play & Laugh together & at one another!

3.) Hug & Kiss always! 

                              4.) Have Romantic Dinners at Home often!

***I LOVE YOU HUSBAND!***

10/18/08

It's Time

"It's time to get up from where you are."

John 5:8

"Then Jesus said to him,
"Get up! Pick up your mat and walk"

Food For Thought

"How long are you planning on staying there?"

Season To Season

Hello There Ladies!

I'm so excited about the Autumn Season. It's been a few weeks now, but finally there's a turn in the tempature that feels so good. The leaves are falling, the cool fresh breeze on my face just feels exhilarating!

 That brings me to my next topic. "CHANGE"

What's changing in your life? What new season are you in? 

Ladies, in all of our lives we're supposed to experience,

 learn and grow into a better being of ourselves.

 Take the time to look back over your life,

 and see what you've done  "differently" or "better".

If you're doing the same old thing that doesn't expose you as a "better" person,

 then perhaps you're stuck in another season because
 you really haven't learned anything.

You will never be able to move forward to a better you,
 if you don't purge yourself.

This could be a host of many things ladies. 

 Covering, Masking,Cheating, Running, Pretending, Lying!

As I always say, "It's a HEART matter" 

Carrying your baggage from man to man,

state to state,car to car, 

or place to place won't change a thing!

 Dig deep to uncover what's keeping

you from moving into a healthy season of your life.

Food For Thought

Let Go & Free Yourself.

 A favorite scent of mine! 

Eucalyptus Mint...perfect for any day!

Dry & Slow

Sometimes things aren't moving fast enough! You're in somewhat of a dry place. Things are happening, but they're NOT happening. Sure, the same old routine is going on. Day in and day out, but the things you've been dreaming about is like the very last bit of molasses slowly pouring out of the bottle. And you know that is slow! LoL. You have to ask yourself, "what is going on here?"  I'll give you a few things to think about.

1.)   "Are you wanting something that you're not supposed to have?"

2.)   "Have you prayed over it?" 

3.)   "Have you lost your motivation & now you're in a rut?"

4.)   "Do you have a support system...family and friends who believe with you?"

5.)   "Are you procrastinating and expecting things to fall in it's own place?"

6.)   "Are you angry and bitter?"

7.)   "Do you have "powerful" spiritual sisters in your corner?"

8.)   "Have you taken on too much as wife, mom, sister, daughter and/or, friend

        and now your dreams and goals are on the back  burner?"

9.)   "Do you need a girl's day?"

10.) "Do you need to re-evaluate some things in order to bring NEW clarity to the situation?"

It's obvious that something is going on. The point is that you step back, and take a look. Just because you're in a dry place doesn't mean that things aren't moving as you think they should. God is always working behind the scenes doing something. Whatever it is, you're now of aware of it, so take action one way or another as your spirit guides. (Even if you are to just remain still for the moment.)  

Food For Thought

Sometimes quiet, dry places brings a loud revelation! 

Ladies,

If someone wants to remain bitter because "they" have issues,

there is simply nothing you can do.

There are MANY reasons why people may become angry & bitter,

but let the truth be told, they're seriously justified!

However, a person MUST still get  it under control ,

deal with it, heal and have freedom from that.

 Bitterness is nothing to play around with.

 It steals so much! 

What I find interesting in some cases is that a person

 can be bitter and mad with "you" simply

 because you've moved on, you've grown.

That person doesn't hold your interest anymore.

 In the midst of you growing, they remained the same 

 and here comes part of the conflict.

The bottom line is this,...YOU  grew

Now it's time for them to grow...  IF  they look in the mirror!

Food For Thought

It's not your battle!

So indulge in your peace & joy!

Timing

"Did God tell you to take a HUGE jump,

 or did He tell you to just take one step?"

Food For Thought

There's a reason God doesn't want you to rush things.

So, be patient and stop biting off more than you can chew! 

You'll never be able to swallow such a large portion at once.

It will all come together one step at a time. Trust that. 

Keep in mind that there is a big difference

 between taking a random huge jump,

over a Leap of Faith that's been prayed about.