Season To Season

Hello There Ladies!

I'm so excited about the Autumn Season. It's been a few weeks now, but finally there's a turn in the tempature that feels so good. The leaves are falling, the cool fresh breeze on my face just feels exhilarating!

 That brings me to my next topic. "CHANGE"

What's changing in your life? What new season are you in? 

Ladies, in all of our lives we're supposed to experience,

 learn and grow into a better being of ourselves.

 Take the time to look back over your life,

 and see what you've done  "differently" or "better".

If you're doing the same old thing that doesn't expose you as a "better" person,

 then perhaps you're stuck in another season because
 you really haven't learned anything.

You will never be able to move forward to a better you,
 if you don't purge yourself.

This could be a host of many things ladies. 

 Covering, Masking,Cheating, Running, Pretending, Lying!

As I always say, "It's a HEART matter" 

Carrying your baggage from man to man,

state to state,car to car, 

or place to place won't change a thing!

 Dig deep to uncover what's keeping

you from moving into a healthy season of your life.

Food For Thought

Let Go & Free Yourself.

 A favorite scent of mine! 

Eucalyptus Mint...perfect for any day!

Dry & Slow

Sometimes things aren't moving fast enough! You're in somewhat of a dry place. Things are happening, but they're NOT happening. Sure, the same old routine is going on. Day in and day out, but the things you've been dreaming about is like the very last bit of molasses slowly pouring out of the bottle. And you know that is slow! LoL. You have to ask yourself, "what is going on here?"  I'll give you a few things to think about.

1.)   "Are you wanting something that you're not supposed to have?"

2.)   "Have you prayed over it?" 

3.)   "Have you lost your motivation & now you're in a rut?"

4.)   "Do you have a support system...family and friends who believe with you?"

5.)   "Are you procrastinating and expecting things to fall in it's own place?"

6.)   "Are you angry and bitter?"

7.)   "Do you have "powerful" spiritual sisters in your corner?"

8.)   "Have you taken on too much as wife, mom, sister, daughter and/or, friend

        and now your dreams and goals are on the back  burner?"

9.)   "Do you need a girl's day?"

10.) "Do you need to re-evaluate some things in order to bring NEW clarity to the situation?"

It's obvious that something is going on. The point is that you step back, and take a look. Just because you're in a dry place doesn't mean that things aren't moving as you think they should. God is always working behind the scenes doing something. Whatever it is, you're now of aware of it, so take action one way or another as your spirit guides. (Even if you are to just remain still for the moment.)  

Food For Thought

Sometimes quiet, dry places brings a loud revelation! 

Ladies,

If someone wants to remain bitter because "they" have issues,

there is simply nothing you can do.

There are MANY reasons why people may become angry & bitter,

but let the truth be told, they're seriously justified!

However, a person MUST still get  it under control ,

deal with it, heal and have freedom from that.

 Bitterness is nothing to play around with.

 It steals so much! 

What I find interesting in some cases is that a person

 can be bitter and mad with "you" simply

 because you've moved on, you've grown.

That person doesn't hold your interest anymore.

 In the midst of you growing, they remained the same 

 and here comes part of the conflict.

The bottom line is this,...YOU  grew

Now it's time for them to grow...  IF  they look in the mirror!

Food For Thought

It's not your battle!

So indulge in your peace & joy!

Timing

"Did God tell you to take a HUGE jump,

 or did He tell you to just take one step?"

Food For Thought

There's a reason God doesn't want you to rush things.

So, be patient and stop biting off more than you can chew! 

You'll never be able to swallow such a large portion at once.

It will all come together one step at a time. Trust that. 

Keep in mind that there is a big difference

 between taking a random huge jump,

over a Leap of Faith that's been prayed about.

"Do YOU Use Common Sense?"

Hey Ladies,

As I wrote last night for my men's book, yes, a men's book....some things came to mind like
 "common sense."  And no, I'm not saying men don't use common sense. lol. The subject was completely different, however, since common sense came up in my spirit, I wanted to blog on it because in all honesty, some women fail to use this in "relationships" and just in everyday life issues. 

Having good judgement will usually keep things 
smooth, no matter what it is. If your "perception" is off
most of the time, then your judgement on things will be distorted.
Ask yourself, "why is that?" There is a reason that lack of common
sense leads you to make bad judgement.
Ponder over that today in your own life.

FYI:  The women's book is still a priority.! However, just as "I" think I'm done, my "Holy Spirit" guides me to write some more, and so I obey. We know the Spirit is never to be rushed. God's timing and not my own. So patience is key.

Food For Thought  

Don't underestimate common sense.

If you do, somehow it may cost you.

Free Yourself From Abuse!

Hello Ladies,
I hope all is well in your life and the life of those you love and hold near and dear. I'm at home alone so I decided to take a moment to post a blog.

Today I want to encourage all of you women who are in unhealthy, abusive, toxic relationships to get out of them. And by all means, DO NOT MARRY a man who abuses you in any way on any level. Trust me...if you stay, it will only get worse. Cut it off immediately, and if you're in danger, be wise about how you depart. Why am  I telling you all of this?  Simply because you deserve better. Staying in a bad relationship keeps you in bondage. Having the courage to walk away will give you more power than you ever knew you had. . Life is short. You should be happy living YOUR life.  If you have small kids, protect them. Teach them about the love of God. Give them a foundation to stand on asap. Don't allow anyone to corrupt their "normal & healthy" thinking pattern of right values and morals.  When you free yourself from such foolishness, you'll feel free. God will eventually send a loving man your way. Don't look for him, he'll show up when you least expect him...just as my husband did. Keep in mind, that when you do walk away,your ex may be very angry, vindictive, jealous and mean spirited towards you. Don't allow his poison to keep you in bondage or connected. This is only another reminder of how controlling your ex was and still wants to be.
You have the right to walk away from a person who makes you unhappy due to the abuse. You have a right to be happy. You owe him nothing!!!  All that you can do for a person like that is pray that GOD will deliver him. Pray that God changes that man's heart. YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANYONE...only God can. The last thing that you need to remember... "You are beautiful...don't allow anyone to steal your joy,your peace nor your  happiness.

Food For Thought

Proverbs 6:34

For jealousy is the rage of a man:

therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance. 

(Don't allow the scripture above to put fear in you.

This allows you to be wise & be on guard. )